Dear Parents,

During this unit, we will be looking at how God gave hope to Christians while they waited for Jesus’ return. Paul was a prisoner under house arrest in Rome when a man named Onesimus (oh NESS ih muhs) came to visit him. Onesimus was a slave who had run away from a wealthy man named Philemon. As it turned out, Paul was a friend of Philemon. So when Paul told Onesimus the good news about Jesus and Onesimus believed, Paul desired forgiveness and reconciliation between Onesimus and Philemon—now brothers in Christ.

So Paul wrote a letter and told Onesimus to take it to Philemon. The Book of Philemon is the letter written by Paul to Philemon. Though Onesimus had become dear to him and Paul wanted Onesimus to stay with him in Rome, Paul sent him back to Philemon with his letter.

In the letter, Paul urged Philemon to forgive Onesimus and treat him as a fellow brother in Christ. Paul even offered to pay Onesimus’s debt for him. Though Paul could have used his authority as an apostle of Christ to force Philemon to do what he wanted, Paul instead appealed to him as a friend and a fellow believer. He urged Philemon to treat Onesimus as if he were Paul himself—with love and kindness.

Paul offered to pay Onesimus’s debt to make peace between him and Philemon. In this way, Paul acted like Jesus, who makes peace between God and man. Jesus took the punishment we deserve for our sin. He paid our debt so that we can be forgiven and welcomed by God as brothers and sisters of Jesus. (See Heb. 2:11.)

Paul’s letter serves as a reminder to us that everyone is equal before Jesus. People from completely different backgrounds—like Paul, a former Jewish leader; Onesimus, a runaway slave; and Philemon, a Gentile slave-owner—are brought together by the gospel under the lordship of Jesus Christ. In light of God’s love for us, remind your kids this week that we can be loving, kind, and forgiving to our brothers and sisters in Christ for the glory of God.

God Bless,

David Feiser
Family Ministry Director
The Well Community Church

Family Starting Points 

Scripture Memory: Zephaniah 3:17

“The Lord your God is with you. He is mighty to save. He will take great delight in you. He will quiet you with his love. He will rejoice over you with singing.”

Big Picture Question:

How do we live while waiting for Jesus to come back? We follow Jesus and tell everyone about Him.

Bible Story: "Paul’s letter to Philemon” (Philemon 1:8-22)

• Onesimus ran away.
• Paul told Onesimus the truth about Jesus and he believed.
• Onesimus needed to go back to Philemon and ask forgiveness.
• Paul told Philemon to forgive his servant.

Family Discussion Starters:

• Why did Onesimus need to ask Philemon to forgive him?
• What did Paul mean when he said that Onesimus was Philemon’s brother?
• Who makes peace between God and us? How?

Family Activity:

• Pray for brothers and sisters in Christ around the world.
• Invite believers of a different ethnicity or background than yours to share a meal with your family. Talk about how Jesus makes you brothers and sisters.

Next Week:

• “Paul Gave Hope” (1 Thessalonians 4:3-5:11)